Some General Guidelines That May or May Not Help You Parent Your Athlete Child … or Not.

These are not the posts I like to write, but these are the posts y’all love. So, because I think up these kind of posts too, I’ll share some things I’ve learned, coached and seen along the way. “The greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of its parents.” Carl Jung I’m notContinue reading “Some General Guidelines That May or May Not Help You Parent Your Athlete Child … or Not.”

Gardening for Athletes

In 1991, the year I graduated from high school and started my collegiate athletic career at the University of Georgia, Dan Gookin wrote and published the very first “For Dummies” book, DOS for Dummies. Shortly thereafter, Windows for Dummies was published; and, if you didn’t know, now you do, over 1,600 titles of Dummies booksContinue reading “Gardening for Athletes”

You Can Have a Sandwich or a Smoothie, Not Both

Not all coaching or sports moments are created equally. As someone who recently stepped away from coaching a sport, I have been writing in my journal about things I loved about coaching, but also things – little minor things – that sort of creep up on you as pain points in coaching. Maybe they aren’tContinue reading “You Can Have a Sandwich or a Smoothie, Not Both”

Trading in Cleats for Clip-ins: Why We Gave Youth Soccer the Boot

“I don’t want to go to the game,” our son said slouching in an oversized chair in our living room. He was close to tears and fully dressed in his baseball jersey with his catchers bag packed and his cleats still red from the diamond dust of his last game.  It was June of 2020Continue reading “Trading in Cleats for Clip-ins: Why We Gave Youth Soccer the Boot”

Athlete Mental Health – Referral Channels and How They Work

Recently, I was filling out paperwork for my child’s school physical – better known in the sports world as the Pre-Participation Evaluation (PPE). On the back of page two was a form titled “Patient Health Questionnaire Version 4.” This page asked me to rate four questions from “not at all” (a score of zero) toContinue reading “Athlete Mental Health – Referral Channels and How They Work”